This is not a career talk. Definitely not.
This is just something that i feel i want to share with you out there. and it is about my observation to the subjective thing called L>O>V>E. A bf-gf relationship, that is.
I never had any experience in love, that is to say i've never had a boyfriend. So who am I to talk about this thing? Well, as subjective as it is Love is always something that mingled around my life. I feel the warmth of love from my parents, friends and absolutely God. He created me with such a brain that could think and rationalize what's before my eyes and what i experiences through all my senses. So here it goes...
It has been years since I've gain trust from my friends and families regarding this matter. Some of my close friends opened up to me about their relationships. Even someone in my own family trusted me with his lovelife happenings. But I do not have any obligation to disclose their private matter here.
My father reminded me that everything that happens are upon Allah's will. Be it good or bad. We need to cherish them or accept that as a challenge. Meeting people or breaking up with them is also upon Allah's will. We seriously need to accept it and face our destiny ahead. Detach with them if we must or maintain a good relationship with them, if we could. There is no need to investigate through the ex private matters and ruin their relationship. because no matter how obsess we are with them, they might just go away forever. Even worse, if we're already with them(non-ex.still in a relationship) this private detective behavior could be something that just push us away from them. Trust them if we want, walk away if we have to and do not pull the others into the picture.
On the other hand, getting to know people is surely interesting. Especially when we get close to someone that we have a "thing" with. But does that "thing" really turns out the way we want it to be is what matters the most. As the relationship evolves, so does the feeling. If we get what we want in the relationship, it's great. But if we're still not there or it's actually never there perhaps we should take a step.
Take a step behind - to assess what we have and reevaluate our feelings. It is also a chance for the other person stop and look back and see what he/she overlooked.
Take a step ahead - for us to discover our inner potential. To move on with our life without messing up our life with love. If it's actually there, it will reach us no matter how high we are. If we're lucky He/she will chase us. or else, there is something more for us out there.
I'm not a doctor Love, although i've listened and watched tremendous love affairs. And i'm merely a pupil of Love who wish to learn from the experiences of others. I'm just......MIMI lah!
#Artikel ini ada kaitan dengan yang hidup bukan yang mati. Ampun dipinta jika terguris rasa kerana sesungguhnya, saya sudah berusaha men"generalize" kan segala maklumat utk tatapan dan manfaat pembaca. Salam.